The article reflects on the social custom of complimenting older people with 'You look great,' despite their appearance often showing signs of aging, and explores the underlying kindness and social politeness behind such remarks, even when they may not be entirely truthful.
The article explores why accepting compliments can be difficult for many people, highlighting how reactions to praise reflect self-esteem and impact social interactions, and emphasizes the importance of accepting kind remarks to foster positive relationships.
A bachelor seeks advice after complimenting a woman on her appearance for her 60th birthday, only to receive a pointed response questioning his assumption of what 60 is supposed to look like. The columnist advises against commenting on someone's looks unless invited to do so and suggests that such a compliment might be better received on the day of her 90th birthday.