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Attachment

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culture5 months ago

Why Your Pet Prefers Others Over You

The article explores how pets' preferences for certain humans, like Mochi's choice of Sarah over Tom, reveal a profound, non-algorithmic form of authentic connection and love, contrasting with the data-driven, often superficial nature of modern human relationships and dating apps. It highlights the biological and emotional basis of animal choice, emphasizing the value of presence and patience over manipulation or optimization, and suggests that these animal behaviors offer a form of resistance to the transparency and predictability of our digital age.

relationships1 year ago

"Understanding the Prevalence of 'Boyfriend Sickness' and What You Need to Know"

"Boyfriend sickness" refers to the phenomenon where individuals become obsessed with their new romantic partner, leading them to neglect their friendships and social obligations. This behavior is attributed to the brain's attachment system and the release of oxytocin, the "love hormone." While it's a normal and healthy stage in early relationships, it can be challenging for friends left behind. Experts emphasize the importance of maintaining friendships and being mindful of potential signs of unhealthy relationships.

relationships2 years ago

"The Power of a Simple Action: How Women Can Create Lasting Attachments with Men"

In an interview with psychiatrist and neuroscientist Amir Levine, he explains that attachment is the way our brains evolve to feel safe, and it plays a crucial role in relationships. Levine discusses the three distinct attachment styles: anxious, avoidant, and secure. He emphasizes the importance of feeling safe and secure in relationships, as insecure attachment can lead to stress and emotional dysregulation. Levine also highlights the dependency paradox, where having a secure base allows for independence and exploration. He suggests that small, consistent acts of availability, responsiveness, and predictability can create a secure attachment and make a partner feel attached to you.

psychology2 years ago

Study reveals the connection between insecure attachment and increased post-traumatic stress symptoms in youth

A new study published in Development and Psychopathology reveals that individuals with insecure attachment are more likely to experience post-traumatic stress symptoms (PTSS). The research highlights the importance of secure attachment in mitigating the impact of trauma and suggests that interventions to improve attachment relationships may reduce PTSS in children and adolescents. However, further research is needed to explore the complex interplay between attachment, trauma, and PTSS in young people.

relationships2 years ago

Breaking the Cycle of Relationship Hopping

Serial monogamy is a phenomenon where individuals move from one relationship to another, leaving no room to recover from each breakup. This behavior is often caused by attachment problems or emotional immaturity. Serial monogamists have low self-esteem, are emotionally immature, and build relationships with little reciprocity and high selfishness. They often have a fear of abandonment and are quick to start a new relationship. Therapy, specifically attachment-based therapy, can help serial monogamists address their insecurities and fear of loneliness, and empower them with mature and healthy relational competencies.