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Reciprocity

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lifestyle24 days ago

Wedding Gift Snub Sparks Long-Lasting Fallout

A woman reflects on the lack of reciprocity in wedding gift-giving within her family, feeling hurt by her niece and nephew's actions, and considers whether to address the issue or simply withdraw from her niece's upcoming baby shower, with Miss Manners advising that the niece's rudeness warrants her non-attendance and no gift, but recommends avoiding a lecture.

society24 days ago

Miss Manners: In-Laws' Wedding Gifts Oversight

A woman is upset that her in-laws, including her niece and her husband, did not give wedding gifts to her son and daughter-in-law, despite her extensive expenses on her own son's wedding. Miss Manners advises that reciprocity in gift-giving is expected but not obligatory, and suggests avoiding a lecture or confrontation, especially since the niece's response was rude. The woman also seeks advice on handling her friend's intrusive behavior regarding gifts, and Miss Manners commends her for being considerate.

society2 years ago

Maximizing the Impact of Indigenous Land Acknowledgments.

Land acknowledgments, which recognize indigenous communities' rights to territories seized by colonial powers, have become increasingly common nationwide. While some indigenous leaders and activists say they are a waste of time, others are working to make the well-meaning but often empty speeches more useful. Land acknowledgments can provide a first step toward action, such as soliciting support for indigenous community gardens or paying a voluntary land tax. However, they can also feel disempowering and performative if not accompanied by concrete actions to uphold indigenous sovereignty and self-determination.