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Familydynamics

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lifestyle2 years ago

"Millennial Parents Break Tradition with New Child-Rearing Practices"

Millennial parents are breaking away from the parenting styles of their own parents by fostering open communication, showing more affection, and encouraging emotional expression and independence in their children. They are consciously avoiding past mistakes such as being emotionally distant, shaming children for expressing feelings, and being overly protective. These parents are also focusing on building their children's self-esteem and are more receptive to discussing mental health, aiming to raise kind and caring individuals. Critics, however, warn against doing too much for children, as it may hinder their independence.

advice2 years ago

"Slate's Weekly Wisdom: Top Advice Column Highlights"

Slate's advice column addresses issues such as in-laws making passive-aggressive comments about gender and relationships, dealing with a sister who attends family gatherings while sick, and discomfort with a partner kissing their mother on the lips. The column offers guidance on setting boundaries with in-laws, managing anger towards a family member's inconsiderate behavior, and addressing personal discomfort in a relationship.

lifestyle-and-family2 years ago

"Ask Elaine: Seeking Balance After Years of Grandparenting"

A grandmother who has been providing full-time childcare for her granddaughter for four years seeks advice on how to transition back to her own life without causing drama or hurt feelings. She faces resistance from her daughter, who is concerned about the impact of her leaving. The advice given emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, asserting autonomy, and encouraging the daughter to become self-reliant. The grandmother is encouraged to communicate her needs and plans clearly while being supportive and understanding of her daughter's transition to finding alternative childcare.

family2 years ago

"Sister's Preventable Illness Trifecta Spoils Holiday Festivities"

A reader is frustrated with their sister for repeatedly attending family gatherings while sick, leading to the reader catching a cold and missing out on time with their grandkids. The advice given suggests empathizing with the sister's loneliness, offering alternative solutions like wearing masks, and finding ways to manage one's own anger. Another reader struggles with the lack of relationship with their father and half-brother, and is advised to focus on the relationships they do have. Lastly, a co-parenting reader seeks advice on handling sibling arguments, with the suggestion to establish clear rules and consequences in their own home and to encourage the children to resolve disputes themselves.

advice-column2 years ago

"Seeking Closure: Only Child Reaches Out to Estranged Father's Mystery Spouse"

An only child, Bee, is considering reaching out to their estranged father's "theoretical" wife due to concerns about future legal complications with inheritance and estate planning. Bee's father has been married but out of contact with his wife for over six years and shows no interest in divorce. Bee is conflicted about whether to get involved or not, seeking advice from Amy on whether to pursue contact with the estranged wife for clarity on the situation. Amy suggests that Bee should first understand the inheritance laws and encourage their father to engage in estate planning before deciding to contact the wife.

advice-column2 years ago

"Living Under My Husband's Control: A Personal Struggle"

A woman writes to Dear Abby about her controlling husband who restricts her interactions with friends and family, prioritizing himself over her children from a previous marriage. Abby advises seeking legal counsel to consider divorce. Another reader asks for advice on dealing with a sister-in-law's defensive attitude and poor parenting, to which Abby suggests refraining from giving advice unless there's physical abuse, which should be reported. Abby also extends New Year wishes to her readers, hoping for a less stressful year ahead.