"Ask Elaine: Seeking Balance After Years of Grandparenting"

A grandmother who has been providing full-time childcare for her granddaughter for four years seeks advice on how to transition back to her own life without causing drama or hurt feelings. She faces resistance from her daughter, who is concerned about the impact of her leaving. The advice given emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, asserting autonomy, and encouraging the daughter to become self-reliant. The grandmother is encouraged to communicate her needs and plans clearly while being supportive and understanding of her daughter's transition to finding alternative childcare.