The Importance of Constructive References

In this Work Friend advice column, readers seek guidance on various workplace issues. One person wonders how to decline being a reference for a former co-worker who performed poorly, while another questions the legality of employers asking for age-related information during job applications. A reader seeks advice on dealing with a colleague who has become exclusionary and petty, while another raises concerns about a delayed retirement plan match at their nonprofit organization. The columnist provides insights and suggestions for navigating these workplace challenges.