Love at the Dinner Table Tested by a Strict Diet

A reader asks how to cope with her husband’s increasingly rigid, rule-bound diet that has improved his health numbers but made meals nearly unbearable and shared eating nearly impossible. The columnist flags the risk of an eating-disorder mindset like orthorexia and recommends couples seek a registered dietitian together to reframe meals and consider practical compromises (e.g., flexible portions or individual cooking) so they can eat together without sacrificing health goals.