Redefining Motherhood: Embracing Imperfections and Celebrating Second Pregnancies

The case of Lauren Dickason, a New Zealand doctor who murdered her three children, highlights the urgent need to address maternal mental illness. A report reveals that 11,000 women in New Zealand suffer from postnatal depression and/or anxiety each year, with many not meeting the threshold for assistance. Maternal mental illness is a serious issue, with suicide being the leading cause of maternal death in the country, disproportionately affecting wāhine Māori. The focus on the impact of a mother's mental health on her child often overshadows the importance of supporting mothers as individuals. It is crucial to provide safety nets, dismantle the idea of perfect motherhood, and prioritize the mental well-being of birthing parents.