A recent study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior has revealed that people are more likely to communicate during sex with partners they trust and feel comfortable with, primarily using non-verbal methods to avoid disrupting the intimacy of the moment. The research, which involved in-depth interviews with 78 participants, found that effective communication during sexual activities is significantly influenced by the level of trust and comfort with a partner. The study also highlighted the impact of gender dynamics on sexual communication, with women often refraining from honest verbal communication about their sexual dissatisfaction to avoid hurting their male partners’ feelings. Overall, the findings emphasize the importance of open and clear communication during sex for enhancing sexual satisfaction and relationship fulfillment.
Sex and relationship psychotherapist Miranda Christophers shares six signs that indicate someone may be struggling in the bedroom, including lack of confidence, being easily distracted, embarrassment to talk about sex, sticking to a routine, lack of mutual interest, and feeling shame about sexual performance. She advises on ways to address these issues, such as boosting self-esteem, practicing mindfulness, improving communication with partners, embracing change, and focusing on personal sensations rather than performance pressure.
A recently single stay-at-home mom with limited sexual experience seeks advice on exploring her kink of being tied up while navigating her demisexuality. The columnist suggests caution, establishing trust, and exploring power exchange and praise before incorporating restraints. They recommend disclosing her demisexual identity on dating apps, attending meetups to get to know potential partners, and reaching out to event organizers for etiquette and comfort.
A woman in her 30s is experiencing long dry spells with her boyfriend due to anxiety about initiating sex, despite both partners being generally fine with the situation. The advice suggests engaging in non-sexual but sensual and intimate touching, asking the partner to initiate when feeling up for it, and having deep talks to soothe anxiety. It also recommends considering talk therapy if the anxiety persists.
Shower sex may not always live up to the fantasy, but with the right preparation and communication, it can be an enjoyable and intimate experience. Experts recommend discussing comfort and safety with your partner, using silicone-based lube, and exploring different positions with the aid of non-slip mats and shower accessories. Additionally, incorporating sex toys like butt plugs and waterproof dildos can add excitement and pleasure to the experience.
