Over 20 years of writing the Sexual Healing column, the author shares key lessons about sexuality, emphasizing that there is no 'normal,' the importance of understanding one's own desires, and the evolving societal acceptance of diverse sexual identities and practices, including age, disability, and kink. The column highlights persistent issues like low desire and the separation of sex from relationships, while also noting societal changes such as the rise of dating apps and increased openness about BDSM and polyamory.
Angela Towne emphasizes that the clitoris has vital safety and reproductive functions beyond pleasure, highlighting the gender biases and misinformation that have historically marginalized its importance. She advocates for more inclusive, accurate research and education to improve understanding, communication, and appreciation of the clitoris's full role in health and sexuality.
Men can experience six different types of orgasms beyond ejaculation, including pelvic, prostate, dry, blended, and multiple orgasms, each triggered differently and offering unique sensations. Understanding these can enhance pleasure and reduce pressure, with some types requiring specific techniques or stimulation.
The article debunks common myths about sex, including calorie burning, the definition of having sex, virginity, blue balls, pregnancy during periods, and STI transmission through oral sex, emphasizing the importance of accurate information for better sexual health and understanding.
A woman with minimal vaginal sensation discovers that anal sex provides intense pleasure due to different nerve endings, prompting her to explore this alternative while considering medical advice and safe practices. The article discusses the unique nerve pathways involved, the importance of preparation, and communication with partners about preferences and boundaries.
A man experiences intrusive, racing thoughts during orgasm, which may be related to OCD, and is advised to consider mindfulness and seek professional help if needed. The article also discusses safety and considerations around fisting and handling personal items like a cock ring.
Men can experience six different types of orgasms beyond the typical ejaculation, including pelvic, prostate, dry, blended, and multiple orgasms, each triggered differently and offering unique sensations. Understanding these can enhance pleasure and reduce pressure, with some types achievable through specific techniques or stimulation.
