"Harvard-trained parenting expert reveals the type of praise to avoid for stronger and more mature kids"
Parenting expert Jennifer Breheny Wallace warns against praising children solely for their achievements, such as good grades, as it can create undue pressure and stress. Instead, she suggests focusing on acknowledging and nurturing their character strengths, such as honesty and creativity. By valuing children for who they are rather than their accomplishments, they can develop confidence, resilience, and emotional well-being. Wallace recommends using tools like the VIA Character Strengths Survey and seeking input from teachers to identify and reinforce positive attributes in children.