JoJo Siwa discusses feeling pressured to identify as a lesbian, highlighting issues of biphobia and the fluidity of sexuality, and emphasizing that sexuality can change over time. She reflects on her own journey and the societal pressures within the LGBTQ+ community, advocating for understanding and acceptance of fluid identities.
A person who recently came out as bisexual to their wife is struggling to express their sexuality without making their wife uncomfortable. The wife's reaction of "shock and disgust" may be a projection of the writer's own self-hate and shame. The couple is having difficulty integrating toys into their sex life, but open communication and exploring different options, such as the wife wearing a strap-on, could help. Seeking community support and therapy may also be beneficial in addressing feelings of shame and self-hate. It is important to understand and address any signs of biphobia in the relationship.