"Dealing with a Disinterested Boyfriend: Navigating Lies and Lack of Intimacy"

A woman is concerned about her boyfriend's lack of interest in sex, despite catching him looking at erotic imagery. The columnist suggests that his behavior could be related to depression, anxiety, or issues with cohabitation. He advises the woman to have a calm, compassionate conversation with her boyfriend to understand his perspective and consider seeking couples counseling if communication proves difficult.