Navigating Twin Disagreements: When Parents Differ in Approaches

A parent seeks advice on a disagreement between their 8-year-old twin daughters, where one reluctantly shared her Halloween candy with her sister who had a leg fracture. The parent believes the argument will blow over, but the other parent insists on intervention. The columnist suggests waiting to see if the girls resolve the conflict on their own, but if it persists, a family meeting can be held to discuss everyone's actions and reinforce family norms. In another letter, a young adult living with their mother expresses concern about a comment their mother made, fearing it means they will have to move away sooner than planned. The columnist advises having a calm conversation with the mother to clarify her intentions and establish a timeline for their plans.