"Dear Prudence: The Paradox of Cringing at Kind Words from My Spouse"

A person struggles with expressing and receiving affection due to a past devoid of love and abusive relationships, despite having a loving husband. They feel insincere and uncomfortable with affectionate gestures and seek advice on how to overcome this barrier. The advice given includes having an open conversation with the husband, expressing love in a straightforward manner, understanding each other's needs, and considering therapy to address intimacy issues and fears.