"Ask Amy: Unpaid Loan, Widow's Dilemma, and Rekindling Romance"

A woman seeks advice on how to approach a friend who owes her late husband's estate $30,000, as he has not made any payments in two years. Amy suggests being straightforward and honest in a written communication, expressing the expectation of repayment. If the friend does not respond or refuses to pay, seeking legal assistance may be necessary. In another letter, a woman seeks guidance on dealing with a friend who is intrusive about her medical decisions. Amy advises setting boundaries and considering ending the friendship if the behavior continues.