Struggles with Elderly In-Laws: Ask Amy's Advice

A reader seeks advice on their 80-year-old mother-in-law who refuses to move in with them and expects them to help with her house. The reader, who is already overwhelmed with work, property maintenance, and caring for animals, is frustrated that the mother-in-law hasn't started clearing out her house despite the impending move. The columnist suggests seeking professional assistance to sort and pack the mother-in-law's belongings, as it would be less stressful for everyone involved.