Navigating Gender Stereotypes in Family Vacation Planning
A woman is hesitant to host her adult nieces at her beach house due to their disrespectful and messy behavior, which has caused damage in the past. She is willing to host her polite and respectful nephew, causing tension within the family. The aunt is advised to have a family meeting to address the issue and provide concrete examples of her nieces' bad behavior. She is encouraged to maintain her boundaries and not push her nephew to visit if it causes drama. In a separate question, a man seeks advice on maintaining a relationship with his ex-wife's adopted daughter, whom he considers part of his family. The columnist emphasizes the importance of including her in outings and spending time together, even if his biological children are less interested in such activities.