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relationships2 years ago

Navigating Wedding Etiquette: Tensions and Dilemmas

A woman is hurt after her niece didn't invite her to her wedding, despite the woman suggesting that she would understand if she wasn't invited. The niece followed her suggestion and didn't notify her. The woman is considering not sending a gift but is advised to be the bigger person and congratulate her niece after the wedding. In another question, a mother wonders if tipping is customary when purchasing a wedding dress, and is told that it is not necessary. Finally, a reader disagrees with the advice given about a couple changing their wedding plans from a public ceremony to a private one.

via The Mercury News|
#family-drama#generational-estrangement#hurt-feelings
relationships2 years ago

"Ask Amy: Hurt by a Friend's Betrayal and Ghosting in Card Group"

A woman is hurt and confused after a former friend abruptly cut off their long-standing bridge group and excluded her and her husband from her son's wedding. She is upset that the other two members of the group are still attending the wedding. The advice columnist suggests not judging the other attendees and advises against letting this situation ruin the remaining friendships. In another letter, a disappointed volunteer shares concerns about safety and lack of appreciation at a nonprofit organization and seeks advice on how to address the issues. The columnist advises the volunteer to outline their concerns and decide whether or not to continue volunteering based on the organization's response. Lastly, a reader criticizes the columnist for not suggesting confiding in trusted adults regarding sexual experiences in high school, to which the columnist agrees and encourages seeking support outside of school friends.

via The Mercury News|
#communication#friendship#hurt-feelings
relationships2 years ago

The fleeting nature of friendships

A woman reflects on her strained friendship with her childhood best friend, who became upset with her for not being more present during her pregnancy and after the birth of her child. The writer feels that her friend placed unrealistic expectations on her without clearly expressing her needs for support and communication. Despite attempts to mend the friendship, trust has been lost and both parties have avoided addressing the underlying issues. The writer wonders whether to reach out and explain her hurt or try to reconnect on a lighter note before diving into the difficult conversation. The article emphasizes the importance of open communication and mutual understanding in maintaining friendships.

via Ellie|
#communication#expectations#friendship