"From Office Romance to Relationship Woes: Navigating a Dramatic Turn in Love"

A reader seeks advice on how to navigate changes in their relationship with a partner they initially had a secret work affair with, expressing a desire to maintain elements of risk and degradation in their sex life. The columnist advises open communication, self-reflection, and exploring alternative ways to fulfill these desires while respecting their partner's boundaries, suggesting potential compromises and discussions about the importance of these specific aspects of their sex life.