"My Wife's Strict Rules for Intimacy Are Ruining Our Relationship"

A woman seeks advice on her wife's unenthusiastic approach to sex, despite their agreement to have sex on Sundays. She feels rejected by her wife's lack of physical and flirtatious response, while her wife claims difficulty in switching to "sexy stuff" on command. The columnist suggests understanding the wife's preferred approach to touch and communication, and encourages the woman to communicate openly with her wife about her feelings and desires, while also reminding herself of the other reasons she married her.