"Why Won't My Best Friend Let Me Babysit His Baby?"

A single woman with a close friendship with a couple who recently had a baby feels hurt and excluded because they won't let her babysit, possibly due to her autoimmune disorder. She suspects ableism from her friend and is unsure how to address the situation without damaging their friendship. The advice suggests having an open conversation with the friend about her feelings and past comments, while acknowledging the difficulty of the situation and the importance of preserving the friendship.