The Allure of Unrequited Love: Why We Get So Obsessed

This article explores why people tend to become obsessed with individuals who are not interested in them romantically. The author suggests that our infatuation with uninterested individuals may be a combination of cultural expectations and a healthy reaction to social rejection. The societal pressure to be in a relationship and the subsequent loss of identity when rejected contribute to the difficulty in coping with romantic rejection. However, the author encourages individuals to redefine themselves and not let others define their worth based on relationship status.