Navigating the Age Gap: Seeking More Than Just Physical Connection

A 22-year-old woman is concerned that her 55-year-old boyfriend may only value their relationship for sex, as he consistently rejects her suggestions for activities beyond the bedroom. She wonders if he truly wants to be in the relationship or if he doubts its longevity. Dear Abby advises that both partners need to be willing to participate for a relationship to work, and suggests that if he consistently opposes her suggestions, it may be time to find someone with whom she has more in common.