Navigating Failed Attempts at Rescuing and Rebuilding Relationships

A woman seeks advice after being in a relationship with a man who had a drinking problem and was verbally abusive. Despite her efforts to help him, the relationship ended when he became physically violent. She is now conflicted after meeting someone new and receiving a plea from her ex to take him back. The columnist advises her to prioritize her own well-being and protect her daughter from the chaos caused by her ex-partner, suggesting that her desire to rescue and change him reflects a lack of humility and low self-esteem.