"Ask Amy: Balancing selflessness and criticism in helping others"

A mother who has dedicated her life to helping others is shocked when her child accuses her of being selfish. While her actions may bring her happiness, her child argues that her need to rescue others may prevent her from fully connecting with those who don't have major problems. The mother is encouraged to listen to her child's perspective and consider how her actions impact those around her. In a separate letter, a reader expresses appreciation for the advice given in the column, as it helps them relate to others facing similar challenges.