Grandma's Rule-Breaking Sparks Parental Dilemma

A frustrated mother seeks advice on how to handle her mother-in-law, "Grandma A," who consistently disregards the rules set for the care of her children. Despite explicit instructions to limit junk food and prohibit social media use, Grandma A continues to ignore these guidelines. The mother wants to limit visits to once a week and have the other grandparents cover the rest, but her husband disagrees. The columnist advises the husband to remind his mother to respect the rules, and emphasizes the importance of the children understanding and adhering to the guidelines as well.