In-Laws Deliver Harsh Criticism After Messy House Visit

A couple with demanding jobs and two young children are criticized by their in-laws for having a messy house. The in-laws not only expressed concern about the state of the house but also suggested the couple may have a hoarding issue and attacked their parenting. The couple feels hurt and violated by the boundary violation and seeks advice on how to address the issue. Suggestions include the husband standing up for his spouse, setting boundaries with the in-laws, and seeking an honest opinion from a trusted friend about the state of the house.