"Grandma's New Neighborly Power Play: Rewriting the Rules"

A 75-year-old woman who recently moved next door to her son's family to spend time with her grandkids is seeking advice on how to handle her daughter-in-law's strict rules. While she feels the rules are unnecessary and take away from her joy, she acknowledges the need to honor them. She specifically wants to address the issue of her gifts not being opened promptly. However, the columnist advises against trying to assert control and suggests focusing on being a supportive and involved grandmother instead.