
The Real Culprit Behind Divorce: It's Not Communication Problems
Relationship coach Erin Bentley debunks the myth that communication problems cause divorce, emphasizing that it is the lack of connection that leads to relationship breakdowns. While communication is important, Bentley explains that the purpose of communication is connection. To improve both communication and connection, Bentley suggests actively listening to your partner's needs and desires, identifying the deeper needs underneath, and taking steps to change behavior. She references the Gottman Method, which provides actionable tasks to improve connection in relationships.