"Betrayed by Secrets: The Devastating Impact of a Private List"

A woman discovers that her husband has been keeping a private list of things to avoid in their relationship, including not sharing vulnerabilities with her. While his intentions may have been to remind himself of what makes her feel loved, some points raise concerns about avoiding negative topics and hesitancy to be vulnerable. It is important for the couple to address these issues and seek professional help if needed, as resentment and contempt can damage the relationship. Open and empathetic communication, along with fair fighting techniques, can help them navigate their struggles and initiate positive change.