Navigating Imbalanced Relationship Responsibilities: Insights from Workplace Romances

The letter writer is concerned about the compatibility of their relationship with their boyfriend, who expresses love through acts of service but struggles to communicate emotions. They desire more emotional intimacy, compliments, and the ability to contribute to the household. The letter writer developed a crush on a coworker who provided compliments, leading to doubts about the relationship. The advice suggests considering couples counseling and discussing the need for emotional intimacy with the boyfriend, as it is not selfish to desire a deeper connection.