Navigating the Uncertainties of a Fresh Divorce

A woman is struggling to maintain a friendly relationship with her brother-in-law and his new girlfriend after discovering that they had been in a relationship for at least five years while he was still married. She finds their infidelity and lack of shame disturbing but wants to avoid damaging her husband's family dynamic. The columnist advises her to keep her judgment in check, as she doesn't know the full story behind their marriage and outside relationships. In another question, someone seeks advice on how to end extended phone conversations with friends without causing animosity. The columnist suggests being honest about not enjoying phone calls and using alternative forms of communication.