Girls Weekend Turns Awkward as Unexpected Husband Joins the Fun

A woman planning a girls' weekend to see musicals in New York is frustrated when her friend invites her husband without prior discussion. She cannot accommodate three people in her friend's apartment and wonders if it's okay to leave them to find a hotel on their own. The advice columnist suggests expressing her frustration to her friend and asking them to find alternative accommodation. In another letter, someone asks if it's okay to decline invitations to unpleasant activities with friends and family. The columnist advises declining and suggests finding alternative ways to spend time together. Lastly, a reader expresses their disapproval of wedding invitations that ask for donations, and the columnist clarifies that guests should not be expected to finance the wedding.