"Ask Amy: Dealing with a Spouse's Laundry Frustrations"

A husband is frustrated with his wife's reluctance to do the laundry, which has led to a lack of trust in their relationship. The advice columnist suggests that the husband takes matters into his own hands and does the laundry himself, removing the stressor from their relationship. The issue may stem from a perceived inequality in their professional and domestic responsibilities, so they should have a conversation to rebalance both aspects. Additionally, a reader shares that hosting Thanksgiving at a restaurant has been a great decision, but the question of leftovers remains.