Neighbor's Repeated Mail Mishaps: Ask Amy for Advice

A frustrated couple in Colorado seeks advice on how to handle their neighbor repeatedly opening their mail, claiming it's accidental. The columnist suggests going paperless and switching to online financial records, as well as monitoring credit reports regularly. They also advise the couple to communicate with their neighbor, emphasizing the importance of privacy and requesting that she be more careful with their mail. While it is not illegal to mistakenly open someone else's mail, deliberate opening is a serious offense according to the law.