"Silencing the Bluetooth Symphony: Ask Amy's Advice on Dealing with Annoying Outdoor Music"

A reader in Colorado is frustrated by the prevalence of Bluetooth speakers in outdoor spaces, as they disrupt the peace and quiet of nature. They wonder why people don't consider the impact of their music on others and if there is a respectful way to ask them to turn it down. The advice columnist suggests that noise ordinances and rules regarding noise pollution may be necessary, but also cautions against confronting those who blast music in public. In another letter, a reader discusses their family's history of estrangement and their decision to divide their estate only among the children who have maintained contact. The columnist suggests seeking therapy to address the deeper issues causing the estrangement. Lastly, a reader disagrees with the columnist's endorsement of lying in a previous response regarding a waiter serving decaf coffee instead of regular.