Changing My Children's Last Names: A Parent's Journey

A single mother seeks advice on changing her children's last names to her own, but is concerned about her 10-year-old's mixed feelings. The columnist suggests discussing the matter with the older child privately and considering his perspective, as he may be holding onto his father's name as a way to maintain a sense of normalcy. The mother is advised to emphasize the desire for the family to share the same surname and explore the option of making their father's surname their middle names. In another letter, a person seeks guidance on how to handle their mother's forgetfulness, with the columnist recommending patience and a trip to the doctor to rule out any treatable causes. Lastly, a reader shares their experience of throwing smaller wedding parties across the country after having a destination wedding, which successfully addressed the complaints of family members who were not invited.