"Ask Amy: Dealing with Inconsiderate Friends and Talkative Writers in Social Settings"

A party host expresses frustration over inconsiderate friends who failed to RSVP or canceled last minute, leaving them with wasted food and feeling embarrassed. The columnist emphasizes the importance of responding to invitations and suggests using technology to track guest lists and send reminders. While hosts should anticipate some cancellations, it is common courtesy not to expose others to illness. The columnist advises the host to consider leaving off those who ignored the invitation from future guest lists but notes that bringing up the issue is not necessary.