Navigating Family Drama at Your Bridal Shower: Ask Amy's Expert Advice

A reader seeks advice on how to handle intrusive questions about her difficult family during her upcoming bridal shower. Amy suggests politely shutting down inappropriate conversations and working on interpreting these inquiries differently. In another letter, a parent expresses concerns about the schooling system and whether to homeschool their daughter or send her to preschool. Amy advises researching local schools and homeschooling options, emphasizing the benefits of a quality preschool experience. Lastly, Amy discusses the difference between demonstrating pride in military service and wearing an Ivy League school's logo, stating that serving in the military involves greater risk and sacrifice.