Dear Abby: Coping with the Growing Pain of Losing a Son

A woman grieving her son's death struggles with her daughter-in-law's distance and secrecy about her grandchildren, and seeks advice on maintaining family connections and legal options. Another letter discusses her parents' inability to assist her sister due to their own health issues, prompting advice on honest communication. Dear Abby suggests consulting an attorney about grandparents' rights and seeking therapy for emotional support, while advising honesty with family members about limitations.