AI Matchmaking Bets on Conversation Over Swipes

A wave of AI-powered dating apps like Fate in London is reshaping how people find partners by using an agentic AI that interviews users, proposes five matches (no swiping), and can coach conversations. Proponents say AI can highlight authentic compatibility based on personality similarity and reduce the repetitive grind of major platforms, while critics warn about privacy, overreliance on algorithms, and potential manipulation. Early users report dates and excitement, but industry research shows broad skepticism about AI guiding intimate conversations, reflecting a tension between novelty, vulnerability, and real-world results.