Navigating the Granddaughter's Desire for a Big Bridal Shower while Living with the Mother-in-Law

A concerned grandparent seeks advice on how to handle a bridal shower for their granddaughter who plans to live with her soon-to-be mother-in-law after marriage, leaving little room for traditional household gifts. Dear Abby suggests focusing on more practical matters, such as the groom finding a job and the couple undergoing pre-marital counseling. Instead of physical gifts, the suggestion is made to give the couple cash to invest until they are ready to use it.