Navigating Family Events and Relationships: Ask Amy's Advice

A woman seeks advice on how to handle her husband's dislike for her son's mother-in-law, which causes him to skip family events. The columnist suggests that the husband should manage his own relationships and come up with his own excuses for not attending. Another reader asks for advice on how to RSVP to expensive family events that they cannot afford to attend. The columnist advises expressing gratitude for the invitation and regret for not being able to attend. Finally, a reader points out the legal and financial implications of giving a down payment for a home and suggests exploring all options before making a decision.