Dear Abby: Husband's Money Requests Cause Concern

A woman seeks advice about her financial independence and fairness in her marriage, where she manages her own money and household contributions, while her husband, who has health issues, expects her to contribute more as her income increases. Abby advises understanding the husband's estate plans and consulting a financial adviser. Additionally, a woman with celiac disease asks whether to bring her own food to a family celebration; Abby suggests contacting the bakery to request suitable options or bringing her own food if necessary.